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THE CROSS FATHER The home that has at its head an ill-tempered man, is to be pitied. His wife is always afraid of him and often ashamed of him. His children are on edge when he is in an ugly humor lest he vent his irritation on them. His acquaintances give him a wide berth in social life.

He is a bitterness to himself as well as a radiating center of unhappiness for others.

He should take a look at himself in a rage and resolve to reform. He cannot expect that God will want such a "grouch" in Heaven or that the angels and saints would put up with him, even if he were admitted. He must change himself in order to be received into such good society. And he had better begin at once. A sure way to amend is to utter no words in a hurry or in a loud voice. Speak slowly and lowly, no matter what the inclination to impatience. Count five before making reply to any unpleasant remark. This is practical. It is effective. It can be used to co-operate with actual grace towards patience obtained through prayer.

To know the constitution and the law is good, but without conscience it may be the shield of corruption in the hands of the pettifogger and the politician.-Rev. T. J. Shealy, S. J.

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THE BAR (A poet has said of the saloon that it is appropriately called a bar.) A bar to heaven, a door to hell; Whoever named it, named it well. A bar to manliness and wealth, A door to want and broken health. A bar to honor, pride and fame, A door to sin and grief and shame; A bar to hope, a bar to prayer, A door to darkness and despair; A bar to honored, useful life, A door to brawling, senseless strife; A bar to all that's true and brave, A door to every drunkard's grave; A bar to joy that home imparts, A door to tears and aching hearts; A bar to heaven, a door to hell, Whoever named it, named it well.

MEN SHOULD MARRY EARLY No man should live to pass middle age before he marries. When I say that a single life is hades I mean it in its most severe form. This is specially applicable to the man who must live away from home in the surroundings of boarding houses and hotels.

In these environments there is nothing that is conducive to the exercise of the gentler side of a man's nature. He leads a superficial and often very selfish existence, and in the end if he marries this will probably mean the direst unhappiness of his wife.

My advice to a young man is to marry early. After you have reached the age of discretion center your thoughts on some one woman.

When you are making enough money to support two and to save a little, marry. In all probability in this day and age you will marry a woman engaged in business.

I have often been asked if I did not think the increase in the employment of women did not tend to lessen the number of marriages. Not in the least.

Not long ago the man had to wait

until he could earn enough money to support the whole responsibility of the home. Now the wife who earns a living wage can make an earlier union more practicable than has ever been known before in the world's history.

Every young man who is unmarried has certain temptations thrust more forcibly upon him than he would have if he had a home.

Gambling, drinking, late hours and heavy carousing are not qualities generally dominant in the young married man. On the other hand the majority of unmarried men indulge in these to an unlimited extent.

This condition is changed where a home is founded. The home interest is uppermost in the man's mind. He has a real purpose in life outside of the despicable one of utter selfsatisfaction. He has a little wife whose happiness is his and who by her gentler nature transforms the selfcentered man to one of thoughtfulness.

-Judge Luke J. Connorton.

MONEY SPENT FOR EDUCATION THAT DOESN'T ED

UCATE

There is always a tendency to spend more money on schools each year. This, of course, is in the nature of things, but there is a limit beyond which it is not honest or wise to go.

Our schools should not cost the large sum per capita which they do. If the elaborate system we have, renders this cost necessary we should have less elaboration. All the northern states of the Union are overschooled. I by no means intend to say by this that they are overeducated. The two things are very different. You may educate a person by sending him to school or you may not.

The word educate is one of the most meaningful in our language. It means, as we all know, to draw out, not to put it. Now, our (I am speaking of the country at large, please bear in mind) is too much a putting in process, not pulling out-not de

veloping. It consists to a great degree simply of acquirement of information. And how little is really acquired may be understood by the fact that of the appointees to the Naval academy fully 60 per cent. fail annually to pass the very simple entrance examination, unless a remarkable change has taken place in late years, which I doubt.

That we carry the schooling of the great majority of children far beyond their capacity is beyond question.

There is nothing, as I see it, more necessary than an overhauling of our systems and the cutting out of so

much waste effort. Let us recognize more the vast differences between the few who wish to and can go far and the many inert, and not to waste time and money in carrying so much dead weight as we now do.-Rear Admiral French E. Chadwick.

Morality without God is void of force, as it is void of sanction. As well may you bid the frail reed of the field to hold up against the passing storm as to bid the human soul apart from divine support to withstand the fierce assaults of passion.

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The advertisements that appear in the Monthly are an indispensable factor in the achievement of the publication's success.

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Dr. William Francis Garner, Jr. Dental Surgeon

140 EAST 92d STREET, cor. Lexington Ave. "The Mildred."

'PHONE, 3492-79th

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EXAMINATION AND CONSULTATION FREE

Hours, 9 to 7.30. Sundays, 9 to 1. Open Tuesday and Friday evenings till 9

ORDER OF SERVICES IN CHURCH OF OUR LADY OF GOOD
COUNSEL

Masses-On Sunday: At 6, 7, 8, 9, 10,
10:15. High mass and sermon at II
o'clock a. m. Children's mass in the
Chapel at 9 a. m.

On Holy Days: Masses at 5:30, 6, 7, 8, 9 and 10 o'clock a. m.

On Week Days: Masses at 7, 7:30
and 8 o'clock a. m. (unless otherwise
announced). On the first Friday of
the month the first mass is at 6 o'clock
a. m.

Vespers and Benediction of the Blessed
Sacrament-Every Sunday at 4 o'clock

p. m.

Confessions are heard every morning

after each mass; on Saturdays from 4 to 10 o'clock p. m., on the Vigils of Holy Days and on the eve of the first Friday of each month, from 7 o'clock p. m.

The members of St. Joseph's Sodality and of the Holy Angel's Sodality go to confession on Friday afternoons hereafter.

Baptisms-On Sundays from 4 to 6, and from 7 to 8:30 p. m.; on week days at any hour previously arranged. The father should be present at the baptism of his child, and there should be two sponsors, whom the Church requires to be Catholics.

mass.

Marriages and Funerals should take
place in the morning, with
Timely notice of marriages should be
given to the priest.

Sick Calls-All sick calls are to be left
at the Rectory, 230 East 90th street, by
someone who can give an intelligent
account of the case. They should be
sent early in the day, if possible, and
they will receive immediate attention.
Blessing of Religious Articles-On the
third Sunday of the month after the
meeting of the Rosary Society. If the
article be small, the priest will bless it
at any time.
Churching of Women-On Sundays or
week days, after any of the low masses.
Women coming to the church are re-
quested to procue a wax candle, as oth-
er kinds may not be used in the Church
services.

Pew Rents payable quarterly, in advance,
January 1, April 1, July 1, and October

I.

Sunday School-Every Sunday morning
immediately after the children's mass.
Prayer Classes (for the little ones) every
Sunday morning after the children's

mass.

Instruction Class every Tuesday afternoon, at 3:30 in the Chapel, for all the public school children.

THE SOCIETIES OF THE CHURCH The Rosary Society receives Holy Communion on the third Sunday of every month at the 8 o'clock mass, and meets after Vespers the same day.

The Sodality of the Immaculate Heart of Mary meets on the second Tuesday of every month, at 8 p. m., and receives Holy Communion on the third Sunday at the 8 o'clock mass.

The Holy Name Society receives Holy Communion on the second Sunday of every month, at the 7 o'clock mass, and meets at 7:30 p. m. the same day.

The Conference of St. Vincent de Paul
meets every Tuesday evening, at 8
o'clock.

The League of the Sacred Heart and
Apostleship of Prayer meets on the
first Friday of every month, at 8 p. m.
Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament
every first Friday all day. Promoters
meet on the Tuesda yafter the third
Sunday of every month at 8 p. m.
The St. Joseph Sodality receives Holy
Communion on the first Saturday of
every month at the 8 o'clock mass, and
meets in the School Hall at 3:30 p. m.
the following Sunday.

The Holy Angel's Sodality receives Holy
Communion on the fourth Saturday of
every month at the 8 o'clock mass, and
meets in the School Hall at 3:30 p. m.
on the following Sunday.

The Altar Boys' Society meets every
Friday evening at 7:30 o'clock.
The Collectors of the School Fund As-
sociation meet every Monday evening.

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